Parent Education

Perfectionism and Anxiety in Young Children

We recently held our first parent education series. We had several requests to share some of the content from these events.

We wanted to share with you some basic advice on anxiety and perfectionism in the very young. Gifted children frequently suffer from extreme perfectionism, leading to a variety of different types of anxiety. What are some strategies that may help?

  • Shift focus to praise the effort instead of the final product. “I see that you are working hard on …”

  • Model failure. Allowing your child to see you break something (your block tower crashed), fail at something, make mistakes. Don’t just model the failure. Name your feelings, and their relative size, and what you are going to do next, since you can’t change what happened but you can re-frame how you feel about it. “Ugh, that was a little frustrating, but I will…”

  • Read books about failure, with social stories. It may be helpful to read books about perfectionism with or to your children, to discuss all the feelings that make children so uncomfortable while it is not actually happening. A few of our recommendations:

We will be sharing more content in the weeks to come, so check back soon for more. This content is brought to you by MAGE. Click Contact to be put on our distribution list.

Free Gifted Parent Education Series

Midwest Academy for Gifted Education is excited to bring you a free Gifted Parenting Education Series in partnership with Chicago Gifted Community Center.

The format of each event in the series is a 30-minute expert panel presentation on the topic, followed by a 15 minute question period for the panelists and a 30 minute mingle. The idea is to bring together a parent of gifted child, a mental health professional, and a gifted educator, for different perspectives and ideas around solutions. Detailed descriptions and speaker bios are here.

There are 2 workshops in the series below. They are hosted at Novel Coworking - Please note location change for the July 16th seminar, 420 W Huron St., Chicago IL 60642

Gifted 102: Gifted school challenges

Tuesday, June 11, 2019, 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM

Judy Wahl, Dr. Jessica Douglass, Irene Gottlieb

Judy Wahl, Dr. Jessica Douglass, Irene Gottlieb

Gifted 202: Anxiety and perfectionism

Tuesday, July 16, 2019, 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM

Leslie Contos LCPC, NCC, CCMHC, Deborah Lee, Irene Gottlieb

Leslie Contos LCPC, NCC, CCMHC, Deborah Lee, Irene Gottlieb